Traveling this past weekend has led me to recognize that I don't care for speed. I grew up in a big city with traffic all around me, so why was this trip any different?
I sat in the passenger's side watching the other cars as we passed by them. At times my heart would end up in my stomach while other times I was perfectly fine and in my comfort zone. My comfort zone consisted of an easy pace with no one trying to out run the other or even try to slow down and cause a road block; just easy riding.
As I began to ponder on my question to my reaction of fast speed, I started to analize myself and I went further back into my past experiences.
For one, I was the one driving and in control of the vehicle. Next, my past experience with men drivers weren't all that great with high speed and other influences involved. Have you ever noticed that the vehicle goes where your eyes flow?
Last, I don't live in a fast paced world but rather a slow pace rural county. as I continue to ponder my position on speed, I almost feel old. Amazing to me, I'm slowing down, tired of the fast pace life and ready to enjoy the finer things in it.
I think we get this way in our family life too. We get so busy trying to reach the top of the ladder, trying to get things done so we can move onto the next task, or even running a worldly race and missing all the good stuff in between.
If I had known then that I would miss my kids so much now, I would have slowed down. If I had known that I missed a few years in between some other years, I would have slowed down. I was in such a hurry to grow up that now that I'm older, I miss those things.
If you are still young and rushing to get through dating to find the true love of your life, or if you are married with kids and rushing to get them into college, I strongly suggest slowing down. By the time the discoveries have come; the time has passed and you've missed out on the BEST things in life.
I may be slower and older, but I know I can see the road signs better and life is worth sight seeing.
Traveling the BEST road; lead to eternity.
~Marjorie