Giving your heart away can sometimes make you look like a fool; especially when you give it to the wrong person. Matters of the heart can be confusing and tricky. Our head says one thing and our heart feels another. We believe we are in control of our emotions even when the person we've opened up to doesn't receive the matters of our heart.
So what are you suppose to do with this tangled webb you have weaved?
First, you must step back and look at the situation at hand. If you do not love yourself, how can you love someone else?
Next, what do you know about love, really?
Have you truly accepted the greatest gift of all? God gave the ultimate gift of love. Do you know the depth of unconditional love?
I have been reading and studying this great love; sacrificial love. I have found that I did not know what love was. I have hurt MANY people in my life because of my ignorance. I can only ask for giveness and move on. I suggest you too search God's love and talk to him about it.
Last, be smart. Don't just go with your heart's feelings. Your feelings are not facts. God is the giver if life and love. His word says " what God puts together.." Satan is slick and he is out to trip you up. Be smart and go to God. He will reveal himself through scripture. I don't reommend assuming anything. This usually brings trouble and makes you look like a fool.
God is love and He is the giver of unconditional love. Pressing into Him and concentrating on your relationship with Jesus first will lead you to a great love.
Matters of the heart will make you out to be a fool, but be smarter and be wise.
~ Be encouraged by God and experience His love before giving your heart away.